<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[How I Learned: DREADLINE]]></title><description><![CDATA[On writing, creativity, and the art and craft of creative nonfiction.]]></description><link>https://www.howilearnedseries.com/s/dreadline</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vXGy!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd4ac295d-3929-4831-8df2-bdfa7aed3c12_500x500.png</url><title>How I Learned: DREADLINE</title><link>https://www.howilearnedseries.com/s/dreadline</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2026 05:58:05 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.howilearnedseries.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Blaise Allysen Kearsley]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[howilearned@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[howilearned@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Blaise Allysen Kearsley]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Blaise Allysen Kearsley]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[howilearned@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[howilearned@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Blaise Allysen Kearsley]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[DREADLINE Thoughts On 28 x 20]]></title><description><![CDATA[Zero-stakes business, all good things in the end]]></description><link>https://www.howilearnedseries.com/p/a-note-about-28-x-20</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.howilearnedseries.com/p/a-note-about-28-x-20</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Blaise Allysen Kearsley]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2026 20:49:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/986f0dcd-b906-43cd-8c37-3304f392ef3a_360x360.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h5>Hello, new subscribers. Welcome and thank you for your support. </h5><div><hr></div><h4>Are you aware of this <strong><a href="https://www.howilearnedseries.com/p/28-x-20-daily-prompts-for-writing">28 &#215; 20</a></strong> workout we&#8217;re doing in February? Writing is a muscle, y&#8217;all, and we about to get physical. </h4><p>Here&#8217;s a thing I say all the time. I don&#8217;t always feel better when I write, but I feel worse when I don&#8217;t. </p><p>Even when depression wins out (or dysregulation, envy, <a href="https://www.howilearnedseries.com/p/i-regret-sending-that-email">self-doubt, anxiety, stress</a>, rage; take your pick), or I still haven&#8217;t figured out a problem I&#8217;m having with a particular project, or I can&#8217;t find the best words to convey exactly what I mean and I&#8217;m just staring at the page &#8212; even then, I&#8217;ve moved a few steps ahead of where I was. That&#8217;s not nothing. Especially right now. I have to &#8220;good girl&#8221; myself just for getting out of bed every day. Maybe you know what I mean.</p><p>Horrific things are happening. We&#8217;re living under a fascist regime and sitting with our art might feel self-indulgent or meaningless. But for many of us, art is the air we breathe. Even if no one ever sees what we&#8217;ve produced (publishing does not make you a writer, by the way; a writer is a writer), making art is <em>an energy</em> that ripples out into the universe with offerings of endless possibility. It sounds romantic, it&#8217;s true. Creativity calls for observance, curiosity, investigation, memory, reflection. There&#8217;s more than one way to engage with the work. It&#8217;s all healthy brain food. We need that now. </p><p>If you&#8217;re considering joining <strong><a href="https://www.howilearnedseries.com/p/28-x-20-daily-prompts-for-writing">28 &#215; 20</a></strong>, and it&#8217;s feasible for you, DO IT. This is zero stakes business, my friends. All good things in the end. Of course, you don&#8217;t need to give a flying f*** about daily prompts to become a free or paid subscriber to <a href="https://www.howilearnedseries.com/about">HOW I LEARNED</a>.</p><p>Come as you are &#8212; that&#8217;s the moral of the whole story. 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isPermaLink="false">https://www.howilearnedseries.com/p/i-regret-sending-that-email</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Blaise Allysen Kearsley]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2025 17:21:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/f9227b63-0cac-4b03-80cb-66fbce9af7a1_960x958.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The day before yesterday, I sent out a new micro-essay to my subscribers. 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