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Kevilina Burbank's avatar

Oh, absolutely. Can this be a Netlfix series instead of all the harmonious fictional sex scenes where nobody has to shower immediately afterwards or gets a UTI two days later and has to pay $200 to get it treated? I mean, Japanese vibrator all the way. Loved reading this.

Dianna's avatar

Relatable. My annual is coming up next month and I am unbothered.

Pamela Gordon's avatar

What a smart, funny, GREAT essay. I can relate so much. I like(d) sex. I miss it sometimes. But I no longer can be bothered. And do not even speak to me about a boyfriend, or a live-in partner who might upend my solitude and well-being.

Blaise Allysen Kearsley's avatar

Yes. I'm like, love me but don't touch me.

Leah Odze Epstein's avatar

This is so great! Thank you for writing it.

Dorian Burden's avatar

Had me nearly spit out my coffee with laughter more than once. Sharply intelligent read and also incredibly relatable.

Patrick Gutierrez's avatar

So honest and well written. The words fall onto the page so eloquently. Let’s talk about sex, baby… S & P

Anna Myers's avatar

Read this the other day (was it in Memoir Monday? I think that’s how I found it!) and loooooved it. What a beautiful essay. Cheering you on from afar ✨✨

Char Breshgold Words/Pictures's avatar

What a way to start HIL! So hilarious and touching. 🙏🏼❤️